You need a mentor, so find one.

More than anything else, we all strive to have a source of support. We all search for someone who listens to us, understands our goals, guides us towards something more fruitful and saves us from failures and emotions that come with it.

And, this job is done best by a person you can call your “mentor”. If there is one thing you need to do, when you’re distracted and disconnected, is to find yourself a mentor because when you do, you’ll be focused, you’ll know what to do next and for once, you’ll believe you can do it.

Let your mind go…

Try to control your mind and it will pull you into wildness. Let go of it and it will guide itself into peace. Try both, then settle for one.

Waiting for Perfect Timings

I’ll do it when I’ve that thing. I’ll do it when I have that equipment. I’ll do it when I have everything I need to get it done. I’ll do it when my life is perfect. I’ll do it when nothing comes in between me and my goal. I’ll do it when I’m in the perfect state of mind.

If you’re processing thinking patterns like the one described above, you’re so going to procrastinate on it for the rest of your life, because nothing is ever going to be perfect. In fact, even if you have all you need, the end result isn’t going to convince you with its perfection.

Do it or not do it. That’s the only question! Don’t let your self depend on perfect stuff and timing to show up before you’ll make something great happen! You’re not so feeble.

The great conversationalist

A great conversationalist is a person that converts. He knows what he is talking about. He knows when to make a point or share an opinion and times it well enough to be convincing. A conversationalist is a person who keeps his eyes and ears open and listens and observes more than he expresses. He isn’t overwhelmed about what he wants. He is at ease. He tells stories to back up his ideas. He is a marketer. He is excited. He’s a hero.

Are you a great conversationalist?

Your time is limited

Remind yourself that your time is limited. Do it again, and then again. Do it when you get up in the morning, do it when you go to bed, do it when you’re waiting for the train to arrive, do it when you’re procrastinating, do it when you’re unhappy and also when you’re happy.

Remind yourself of the moment that just passed by you. Do it so that you are consciously aware of what you could have achieved and what you could do now to make the coming moment achievable…

Acknowledge your meaningful life

How do you bring meaning into your life? How do you understand what you are, what you have become and what you want to be? One great way to do it is create a journal of change. Make it a habit to write down your journal of life every single day.

Don’t write your life’s story or how you passed your day, but instead, write the lessons you learned, write what you think about life, experiences, etc. Time and again reach back and read what you’d written and marvel at yourself for the meanings you’ve been collecting on the way…

Your life is already meaningful. All you need to do is acknowledge the meaning. If our good ol’ Leo could do it, why not you?

The best way out is always through – Robert Frost

One of the best things about life lies in its uncertainty. And it all starts from having to take decisions we’re unsure about. But, once a decision is taken and enough acted upon so that there is no turning around, there are only two things you could do – stop there and repent or keep going until it’s done away.

Turning around isn’t possible because though we can get back to our past in the mind, we can’t really alter it and quitting in a way that keep you as miserable for ever isn’t any good option either. If you’re passing through something that makes you miserable, you should keep going, and pursue the direction of the visible light, and do it until dawn.